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Most of us would agree gossip (流言蜚语) is bad. In fact, gossip is something that can forever change a friendship and even prevent you from making new friends. 1． Here are some ways gossip hurts, and what you can do to avoid it.

Gossip Makes You Look Bad

If you’re the one gossiping, other people will not be willing to be your friend. If you talk behind one friend’s back, the possibility is that you will do that to anyone.

The next time you feel the need to do so, take a moment to understand why. 2． Do you believe it will give others the opinion that you’re knowledgeable?

Facing a Friend Who Has Gossiped About You

If you open your heart to a friend and then realize your trust was misplaced, this will forever change your relationship. 3．

You may decide that you do not want to give your friend another chance, and this will end your relationship. 4． If so, you’ll need to make sure your friend knows that you don’t talk about people behind their backs, and you expect the same from your friend.

How to Stop Gossiping

5． Even if you don’t know the person being talked about, change the subject or walk away. Don’t let the poor behavior of someone else ruin your reputation as a good friend.