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What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share. 1．. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others, we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.

Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First, make your outside behavior the same as your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, 2．. Third, try to change your question into statements (陈述) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. Finally, try not to say, “I don’t know.” This usually means “I don’t want to think about it any more.”

3．. You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well. This is because you’re not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. 4．. If we say everything we think and feel, they will feel very uncomfortable.

In all, 5．, but we’d better keep the balance (平衡) between being open and being too open.